Clothes
1. Do you judge people according to what they wear? Why?
I think its only natural to judge people based on what they wear, at least at first. I think humans are very visual, and with out communicating with a person in depth, all we have to try to understand is what we see. I think weather we like it or not, clothes communicate things about us to other people. And of course, people make assumptions based on clothing that may not be true. But as I said, I think its just a natural process.
2. Do you think Japanese society puts an importance on clothing when judging people from other countries?
I'm not really sure, but I think Japanese tend to place people from foreign countries in a special category. Generally it doesn't matter what I wear, I still get treated the same (that is as a foreigner). Even if I'm in a business suit, I get treated pretty much the same. At the same time, I think some Japanese see people from other countries as fashion trend setters. They look at movie stars and models from abroad and want to dress like them (even if those people might not be thought of as fashionable in their own country).
3.What colors are you wearing right now? Do they reflect your mood?
Dark blue, gray, black, olive green. I have not idea, but these are pretty much the colors of my wardrobe. I generally like cool tone colors which I guess shows how I'm a pretty mellow person and I don't like to stand out.
Friends
1.What are some subjects you will never discuss with a friend?
I don't know, I'm usually pretty open with people, friends especially. But I think my level of openness depends on how close I am with the person. For example I would tell my best friend from who I've know since we were children just about anything, but I wouldn't tell a friend from work the same thing. For me there are different levels I guess, that can change over time too. But there are some things I don't tell anybody, friends, and readers of this blog included!
2.Do you have different friends from different times in your life? If so, how are they different to you? Do you talk about different things? Go to different places?
Yes, for example i have friends from my home town and friends I made in college. Our conversations are always different because we have different things in common. For example when I talk with my friends from my hometown we usually talk about people we went to school with, or things going on in town or our own lives. People I met in college we usually talk about other people from college, or Japan (since most of my friends were also the same major). I think you generally make friends with people you share a common interest or experience, but that common interest/experience may be different for different periods of your life.
Sunday, November 4, 2007
Homework 2
1. a) How would you express condolences to an American family
From my experiences with funerals, its usually a really difficult thing to deal with. Typically when someone dies say a friend's grandmother (where we don't know the person well) there's not much you can say, usually "i'm sorry for your loss", and you might give flowers or attend the funeral etc. If you know the person better usually funerals are a time for sharing memories of that person, so you might tell a story you particularly remember about the person.
b) Have you ever been to a foreign funeral
Not really, the closest thing I experienced was actually a rather unusual story. It was when I was studying in Japan as a high school student and I was staying at another student's house during golden week vacation. The first night there his Great-grandmother (who lived in the house with them and I met only that first day) died. There was quite a bit of commotion, and I had no idea what was going on. The family tried basically to hide me for a while, I think they were rather embarrassed. They made arrangements for me to go stay somewhere else, so I didn't really see much of what was going on, but the one thing I did notice was that the whole family assembled really quickly (like that very day). Anyway thats the closest I got to a funeral in Japan.
2. a)Why are Japanese designer crazy? why does what you wear matter?
I often wonder about this question myself. In America having a designer hand bag, or wearing designer clothes is generally a sign that a person has a lot of money. But here even the girl that runs the cash register at McDonalds has a Louis Vitton wallet. To me, its really strange, and I think it has a lot to do with Japanese ideas of status. I sometimes feel like its almost a requirement for being a part of mainstream society.
As for what we wear, I think that so much of our first impression of people is dependent on what they wear. We look at a person's clothes and immediately think about how much money the person has, what kind of work they do, etc. Thats why a lot of people spend money on clothes and things to make themselves appear high class, even if they're not.
b)What does "don't judge a book by its cover mean to you?
Don't judge a book by its cover means not to make judgments about a person, especially about their character, based on their physical appearance. Of course in this case we're talking about judging people based on their clothes, but I think it applies to all the stereotypes we have on things such as race, gender, religion etc. We generally have ideas about people based on our experiences and stereotypes that we've learned thorough our lives, but we should try to get to know people before we judge them.
From my experiences with funerals, its usually a really difficult thing to deal with. Typically when someone dies say a friend's grandmother (where we don't know the person well) there's not much you can say, usually "i'm sorry for your loss", and you might give flowers or attend the funeral etc. If you know the person better usually funerals are a time for sharing memories of that person, so you might tell a story you particularly remember about the person.
b) Have you ever been to a foreign funeral
Not really, the closest thing I experienced was actually a rather unusual story. It was when I was studying in Japan as a high school student and I was staying at another student's house during golden week vacation. The first night there his Great-grandmother (who lived in the house with them and I met only that first day) died. There was quite a bit of commotion, and I had no idea what was going on. The family tried basically to hide me for a while, I think they were rather embarrassed. They made arrangements for me to go stay somewhere else, so I didn't really see much of what was going on, but the one thing I did notice was that the whole family assembled really quickly (like that very day). Anyway thats the closest I got to a funeral in Japan.
2. a)Why are Japanese designer crazy? why does what you wear matter?
I often wonder about this question myself. In America having a designer hand bag, or wearing designer clothes is generally a sign that a person has a lot of money. But here even the girl that runs the cash register at McDonalds has a Louis Vitton wallet. To me, its really strange, and I think it has a lot to do with Japanese ideas of status. I sometimes feel like its almost a requirement for being a part of mainstream society.
As for what we wear, I think that so much of our first impression of people is dependent on what they wear. We look at a person's clothes and immediately think about how much money the person has, what kind of work they do, etc. Thats why a lot of people spend money on clothes and things to make themselves appear high class, even if they're not.
b)What does "don't judge a book by its cover mean to you?
Don't judge a book by its cover means not to make judgments about a person, especially about their character, based on their physical appearance. Of course in this case we're talking about judging people based on their clothes, but I think it applies to all the stereotypes we have on things such as race, gender, religion etc. We generally have ideas about people based on our experiences and stereotypes that we've learned thorough our lives, but we should try to get to know people before we judge them.
Fall Semester Homework 1
1. Do you agree with the website's description?
I think that there is definitely something to the what the website had to say. Of course some of the things it talked about were rather obvious (even in in American suburbs we have fences wrapped around our houses), but I definitely thing the Japanese like to wrap things in layers. I'm always amazed at how everything, like food, is individually wrapped. Crackers, for example, in America, just come in one big box with maybe one plastic wrapping around 25 crackers. In Japan the same brand of crackers is divided into 4 or 5 smaller packages of 10 crackers with an extra plastic tray to prevent breakage. Sometimes it seems a bit much to me.
What do you do that could be considered wrapping?
I mentioned before about fences around houses which we use to keep outsiders out and insiders in (although now that I think about it, most homes don't have a fence or wall in the front...just my house). I think in general though, Americans are a very touchy people. We like to feel things and get somewhat closer to other people. So maybe thats why wrapping isn't such a big deal to us.
2. a)Where do you go when you die?
I don't really know for sure, but as a Christian I believe that when I die I will go to heaven. What is Heaven? I have no idea, but I assume its a nice place otherwise people wouldn't try so hard to get there. Personally, though, I try not to think of death too much because its really depressing and rather scary.
b)Explain why Japanese have ceremonies 1month, 1year, 3years, 7years, etc. after a person's death.
Of course I'm not Japanese, so I can't really answer this question like a native. But I do know from my studies of Buddhism that the ceremony which takes place 40days after a person's death is to celebrate that person's rebirth. I guess there is a transition period between death and rebirth that takes 40days.
I think that there is definitely something to the what the website had to say. Of course some of the things it talked about were rather obvious (even in in American suburbs we have fences wrapped around our houses), but I definitely thing the Japanese like to wrap things in layers. I'm always amazed at how everything, like food, is individually wrapped. Crackers, for example, in America, just come in one big box with maybe one plastic wrapping around 25 crackers. In Japan the same brand of crackers is divided into 4 or 5 smaller packages of 10 crackers with an extra plastic tray to prevent breakage. Sometimes it seems a bit much to me.
What do you do that could be considered wrapping?
I mentioned before about fences around houses which we use to keep outsiders out and insiders in (although now that I think about it, most homes don't have a fence or wall in the front...just my house). I think in general though, Americans are a very touchy people. We like to feel things and get somewhat closer to other people. So maybe thats why wrapping isn't such a big deal to us.
2. a)Where do you go when you die?
I don't really know for sure, but as a Christian I believe that when I die I will go to heaven. What is Heaven? I have no idea, but I assume its a nice place otherwise people wouldn't try so hard to get there. Personally, though, I try not to think of death too much because its really depressing and rather scary.
b)Explain why Japanese have ceremonies 1month, 1year, 3years, 7years, etc. after a person's death.
Of course I'm not Japanese, so I can't really answer this question like a native. But I do know from my studies of Buddhism that the ceremony which takes place 40days after a person's death is to celebrate that person's rebirth. I guess there is a transition period between death and rebirth that takes 40days.
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